Archive | November, 2011

Why Funny is Sexy…

How evolved do you think we are? It’s interesting to think about how much of our behavior really still is based on evolutionary traits and drivers dating back practically to the big bang. Do even a cursory review of the online dating profiles of women and I bet you $100 that about 80% of them say they […]

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Here a Scam, There a Scam….

I was recently talking about online dating with my fantastic fellow blogger Cakes McCain – what sites to try, lame profiles and emails and of course, the incredible prevalence of online dating scammers out there these days. Now, we all want to believe that the people who have profiles on dating websites are 1) real and 2) on the […]

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Are You Even Ready For A Relationship?

Happy Cyber Monday everyone! This morning while I was trying to forumlate a decent Christmas shopping list, I was thinking about what I wanted to write about today.  In mining the long topic list in my head, it occured to me….how can someone ever be couple-tastic if they aren’t really ready for a relationship? If […]

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From the Frog Files…

Kiss any princes lately? Or have they been mostly frogs? When was the last time you went on a blind date? Not an online dating date…but completely blind…sight unseen, set-up date? Many of us have these wonderfully good-hearted friends who want to see us paired up and happy, but sometimes their method of matching leaves something to […]

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Show Some Gratitude, Will Ya?

Happy Thanksgiving! I hope you are all safely snuggled up at home with friends, family and loved ones today…preferably by a roaring fireplace and enjoying a nice adult beverage. 🙂 So what’s Thanksgiving all about? Why, being thankful, of course! And, being grateful for all the wonderful things that you DO have in your life. […]

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A Glimmer of Limerance?

Can love ever be unhealthy? I came across the concept of limerance in grad school and it continues to fascinate me. While research says that limerance only affects 5 percent of the population I can’t help but wonder…haven’t we all experienced a glimmer of limerance? So, what is limerance?  Limerance is the psychological state of deep infatuation.  According to […]

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How To Choose An Online Dating Site?

If you’re thinking about getting your feet wet in the wild and wonderful world of online dating, you’re probably not sure where to start. And, even if you’ve been doing online dating for a while with mixed results you might want to try a different site and see where that might take you… The interesting […]

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Wow! I’m So Honored!

My fellow blogger friend Veeh has very graciously nominated me for the Liebster Blog Award on her wonderful blog – Learning How to Live the Life That You Deserve. I’m blown away and so excited about the opportunity! Thank you Veeh! The Liebster Blog Award is meant to shine a light on bloggers who have less than 200 followers, to give them a chance to […]

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Is Everyone Meeting Online?

So, on Saturday night my husband and I went to a really great dinner party. Of the three other couples invited, we knew one couple very well, the hosts are new friends and the other couple we hadn’t yet met before. Everyone was incredibly interesting and so much fun – all  from different walks of life, a wide […]

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The Myth of “Perfect” – Staying True to Who You Are…

For most of our lives we search and search for the “perfect” partner. Movies and books aid and abet us in persuing this magical human being…feeding us bullshit lines like, “you complete me.” Let’s start talking about reality here, people…. perfect is a myth. No one is perfect. You aren’t perfect. I’m not perfect. Perfect […]

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